Last night I got on the computer, and was going through the history....i found that my fiancee was looking at people like Tila Tequila, WWE models, and other models on myspace. He was lookin at their pictures. It really hurt me. Because he told me he isnt interested in things like that, skinny girls, because im expecting our first child together in 2008, so im not a skinny model chick. Now he bold face LIED to me when I asked him about it, but the thing was I DELETED THE HISTORY before going to the grocery store, and when I got back is when I found all that!! Should I be mad at him??? I mean he is a guy....I just dont know what to think. Is that what he wants in a girl?!!? Does he wish he was with her instead of me?!? Does he WISH I looked like them?!! HELP, im confused.
Should I be mad?
You are going to drive yourself crazy worrying about this. Guys are going to be guys and look. You need to be more secure in your relationship and not be looking through the history to begin with. All he did was look! Trust me you need to trust him! And yes of course he is going to lie about it you embarrassed him when you brought it up, he probably knows it hurt you (although he didnt mean to)!
Granted, you need to sit down with him and tell him that it is really bothering you and see how he reacts. If he apologizes and reassures you that you are what he wants then dont worry about it. He hasnt cheated on you, all he did was look.
Btw if you are having a baby together, you REALLY need to start trusting him now!
Should I be mad?
no thats not what he thinks of you he is just a guy and the reason why he was hiding it was so you wouldn't get confused like you are now.
Should I be mad?
Th perfect explanation is that hes a guy..and guys do that. I think you might be thinking alittle bit too much into it. But if its all like excessive and its happening ALL the time, then maybe something is up. If he gets shady then talk to him about it.
Should I be mad?
There are so many guys that like Tila Tequila. Probably because she is a whore !! When it comes to getting settled down with someone not too many guys would consider settling down with a girl like her because they know she wouldn't be faithful. You have nothing to worry about and you can't be mad at him. Just act like you don't care and THAT will piss him off even more because he probably wants you to get jealous. SHE is a whore ... YOU aren't. YOU are going to be the mother of his child not HER. So what do you have to worry yourself about?
Should I be mad?
Your pregnant and hormonal. He probably didnt want to hurt your feelings by admitting at looking at the models. Everyone likes to look at "eye candy". If he was actually out there doing something wrong, then I would worry. Be honest and tell him about looking at the history but do be confrontational.
Should I be mad?
give it to him straight. tell him what you found and how you felt when you found it. then lay into him like a rottwieler into a half a cow.
Should I be mad?
No everyone needs to look at something different once in awhile... at least its not porn. Think about don't you ever want look at other guys....
Should I be mad?
If your carrying his child there isn't a girl in the world more attractive! He's just cruising some sites. No big deal!
Should I be mad?
wooooooooo relax all men do it they all look at other women they can not help it it may hurt a bit but he is with u loves u having a baby with u just relax dont u eva look at moviestars?? its just natural u really shud be mad at him he is with u and if he didnt fancy u he wouldnt be with chill out or u will lose him
Should I be mad?
You'll get a lot of answers saying a lot of men are like that. And we are. It's fantasy. Do you honestly think he has a hope in heck of getting one. NOT A CHANCE. Does he look down on you because you are not? No way.
And do you see him as a Model? Well you tell me. But I doubt it.Still I'm sorry you found out, but the two of you should have some sort of agreement. Myself, if I had someone checking up on me this way, I'd have to rethink things. I don't need a policewoman for a gal.
Should I be mad?
if he is gonna bold face lie to you about looking at those girls on the comp. then think about what he might say if he really physically cheated on you
Should I be mad?
HE IS WIT YOU. stop trippin find somthin to do to get ur mind off of that!!!!!!!!!
Should I be mad?
Don't be mad. There is no way in hell he would ever hook up with them. Now if they were singles local sites you should be worried. My wife is smokin' hot but it still doesn't mean I won't look at other women. I find women to be the most attractive things to look at on the planet, doesn't mean I am going to go hump them. I just want to look at beautiful things. He lied because he was embarrassed. After you pop out the kid, lose the baby weight and dress up like what he was looking at in the pics as a surprise. As for the grocery store findings, he was most likely horny and you weren't there and needed a little release.
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